Monday, June 18, 2012

When The 7th Child Goes Away To Camp

Pretty much just dropped him off on the curb.  Literally.
So different than the first child!  The first week long over night camp my oldest child went to was a very big deal in the family.  I personally interviewed each college camp counselor, about curfew times, Internet access, occasion to be with the opposite sex, and stuff like the entire menu. Finally the counselor with the whistle around her neck said, "Is this the first time ever that your child will be separated from you?" Oh my gosh..now just the opposite. The kid says, "Who are the counselors?"  I say, "I don't know, they 're trained whoever they are."  The kid says, "Where do we sleep?" I say, "Oh, they'll have some sort of bed." The kid says, "What will we eat?"  I say, "Oh you can go for long periods of time, like weeks on just one healthy meal."  The kid says, "Should I call very night?'  I say, "No, you don't have to. You'll be fine. But hurry up...it is good to be early for camp."

83 comments:

  1. Funny. We only had one child so this never happened for us, but then our anxieties are all wrapped up in one child.

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  2. I think any parent of more the one child can relate to this........

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  3. True, true! This reminds me of the rule that you're supposed to sterilize anything that goes in a newborn's mouth...

    How you sterilize a pacifier after it has fallen on the dirty floor?

    First-born: by boiling it for five minutes.

    Last-born: by licking it off.

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  4. Funny. Wishing you a great week! xo Heather

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  5. It is like taking photos...you have a gazillion of the first one, and are lucky if you can find enough to do a mini-scrapbook with the last one! Funny..

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  6. I laughed outright. When I first shaved my legs, it was a Major Big Deal. From the way my parents carried on, one would have thought I was being whisked from the eighth grade to marry someone in a faraway kingdom. When my youngest sister shaved her legs, no one noticed. Oh, the things she got away with, LOL!

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  7. I laughed until tears. Great post.

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  8. That's funny, I was the oldest of 3 but my mother had your second group of answers! She didn't seem to worry a bit. Even when she sent me off to a Christian camp with 2 other girls, driven by some strange guy that was affiliated with the camp. Nothing happened and we were fine, but you would NEVER dream of doing that nowadays!

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  9. Humm? I felt like the 7th but I was only 3rd...I guess my mom had a knack for sending kids to camp, too.

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  10. Hearty laughter abounding right here, right now. Too bad you are so (worn out?) caring and (frustrated?) concerned!! LOL LOL LOL

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  11. Puts dropping my 4yo off at VBS in perspective! But she did ask for her own cell phone in case she needed me... Loved this!

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  12. :) You are so right about this! I only have 3 and it is the same here!

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  13. So true! And I was the eldest so all the mistakes and worry were on me!

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  14. Lol!!! I only had two children, but I recall with the second being much less concerned and "hung up" on the details of camp. I trusted the staff and knew she would be alright.
    Hope child #7 has a splendid experience!
    Blessings to you!

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  15. That's so true. I only have 3, but I know exactly what you mean. Just shows were all the same.

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  16. Hahaha!!! So true! Enjoy your week. :)

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  17. I imagine it is similar to the pacifier - the first one you boil - the second you wash and the third you lick clean. lol sandie

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  18. Ain't it the truth! lol

    I was going to bring up the pacifier story but I think Chatty Crone beat me to it!

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  19. And next year the 7th child won't ask you a single question and may even explain the lay of the land to no. 8.

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  20. haha a vast difference indeed! We only have our little girl now so I'm sure we will act the way you did with your oldest ;p

    Ai @ Sakura Haruka

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  22. LOL!!Reminds me of my first child. A picture taken for every reason. Second child pic taken at birth, 6 months and 1 year. ;-)

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  23. so funny! when my oldest started kindergarten it was like that. with my youngest it was totally different - but still odd since i knew that it would be my last time to have a child start school.

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  24. I hope this is the case for me! Just had swim lessons for #1 and #2 today, so much easier than my first's first lessons 2 years ago where I had to be in the pool with her the entire time! Then I was nursing my baby, #3 tonight and just getting lost on those baby bue eyes, I hope even if she is running away from me later, I'll still get those special times with each one of them.

    Jessica
    stayathomeista.com

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  25. Thats so funny, so different from my only's first I was the last to wave the bus off and the first one to say hi to all the kids when they got back a day later.

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  26. I have the plan to go to camp with them, but I imagine there will be a day when I wave them goodbye and enjoy my free time!

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  27. haha....it does get easier...i laugh thinking back about the first time we had a date and left the boys with a sitter...smiles.

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  28. hahaha, I only had one, so I never was able to experience this. You are the MAN!

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  29. Oh dear, it sooo true! Guilty to admit... :)

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  30. I only had half as many as you and to hear them tell it, each younger one had it SO MUCH EASIER than they did.

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  31. So so so so so so TRUE!! LOL!! LOVE it!!!!

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  32. I was an only child til I was 12! For us, the second one DID have it easier! She was practically in a different generation!! LOL! I never went to camp til I was a teenager. She went when she was 8!

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  33. Yep! I was like this with my 3rd kid! If we could have our last kid first, our children would probably be better off!

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  34. My only child when to travel camp and didn't call for 10 day!!! Boy was that hard for me! When you only have one it is different. I always let her ….the good news is... you have all of our attention, the bad news is… you have all of our attention! Hope all the kids have a great summer, Laura

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  35. Annmarie, I have vague memories of camp...I was about 11 or 12. We had 2 weeks of horses (Thrown off twice), archery, bb gun target practice, swiming, the mixed boys and girls party...plus the game we played in the marsh when no one was looking... We shot frogs and each other with the bb guns. It was great fun!! Take Care, Big Daddy Dave

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  36. Never had any trouble with my two kids they just packed their bags and off they went and we didn't hear from them until the camp was over :-).

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  37. He misses home even before he leaves home.

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  38. Thanks for popping by my blog.


    So far I have one kid only.

    Recently he went for a school trip and I was very anxious. It's his first trip without me. But my husband was kinda relax about it. He said let him go and enjoy himself with his friends. :)

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  39. haha I love the difference between the 1st and the 7th. Kids are hardier than we think in the beginning :)

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  40. Oh lol....it's amazing how our courage grows when it isn't the first time we are experiencing our children doing something....I guess we seem to forget that it is still the childs first time!!

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  41. Now we know why oldest children so often feel special :) Loved the post, made me laugh!

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  42. Experience does make difference.

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  43. Isn't it funny how 'precious' our first born is. We soon learn!

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  44. HA! As the mom of only two, ONE of whom was old enough to go to camp last year, I CANNOT imagine letting go of my control-freak ways when it comes to where my kiddos spend the night. :)

    Seriously. I grieved for a solid week when my oldest was gone to camp last year, and stalked the camp website 24/7 hoping to catch a glimpse of her!

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  45. Absolutely hysterical and oh so true. My daughter lived on PB&Js for every meal for two weeks. Camp is so much fun. We need an adult version, I think.

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  46. Your kids were lucky. Mine weren't allowed away until they got old enough to be the counselors!
    Debbie

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  47. Oh Girl! I only have one daughter... never dropped her at the curb:) Have a blessed day, HUGS!

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  48. I can relate on much smaller levels. Like I do not make people hand sanitize every single time they thought about looking at my kid... but, still at four, I have a hard time with them staying away. I am with Debbie, my kids will have to be counselors before they can go to camp LOL

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  49. Too funny! The kids must have so much fun away from home! That is such a great experience.

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  50. Hahaha! Now I am not entirely sure whether to say "lucky 7th child" or "poor 7th child!"

    LOL

    Spanish Pinay

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  51. Things do change with time and babies.

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  52. Yep, I was waaaay more casual on the fourth than the first one.

    (As he is very fond of telling me...)

    ;)

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  53. Ha! I'm going to have a second child and I only pray that I can be less uptight with this next one.

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  54. my kids never went to camp--as a fellow mom of eight- i am ashamed to say--i got worse!

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    - Nicole @ Me + the Moon

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  56. I'm much more laid back with my second, with my first I was pretty crazy :)

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  57. We were much less neurotic with our 2nd compared to 1st. By the time one gets to the 7th you must be downright reckless!

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  58. This makes me laugh! I've seen this with friends. I only have my one baby boy. I can see this happening especially with 8 kids. :)

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  59. Lovely to discover your blog and many thanks for visiting me.
    Camp is such a great experience, hope they have fun.

    enjoy the week
    Carolyn

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  60. Exactly...not me, my husband when our daughter went
    to week-long camp when she was 12.
    Parents had no contact with the kids from drop-off to pick-up.
    First words out of her mouth when she saw us at pick-up,
    "There's an opening next week, can I just stay?"
    Huh.
    No abandonment issues with her.
    Your story is great; glad you shared it.
    We learn, we grow, we learn, we grow :)

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  61. Second time around it is so different. You learn so much from your first child and you are more normal with the second!

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  62. That is funny. I find I'm that way after only two kids! And yes, my second is far better able to go with the flow than the first, BELIEVE me!

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  63. This is so funny and it reminds me of our daughter who now has four. The first one was never allowed to be put on the floor and was held most of the time...fast forward to the third one where daughter got a photo of the wee one laying on her stomach eating butter that had fallen on the floor and thought it was so funny that she posted it on her blog (much to the shock of grandma)! xo

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  64. I'm playing catch up, my husband had a heart attack friday night and I haven't been visiting anybody but I knew I would smile if I came here, i just knew it, that cake is a hoot too!

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  65. The first time my daughter went to camp, she was probably a freshman in HS. Her best friend was from a family of more means that the rest of the kids. She was all over the fact that they had to share the bathroom, and there was no carpet. My daughter said,"Jean, this is church camp, not the Hilton." Cracked everyone up and Jean got along just fine.
    Two years later, my daughter went back to that camp as an intern with the drama troupe that came from a local college to help the campers put on plays. She was going to stay in their cabin!!!OMG, that's when I wanted to start interviewing all the troupe members and chaperones! But I kept my mouth shut. My daughter had the time of her life for 2 months, and wasn't ready to come home.

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  66. My first and last daughters were 9 years apart with one boy in the middle..boy did I ever poop out on her...but she is by far my most independent. Her first day of school she wore a Laker's ensemble. In a few shorts days, the most amazing wedding dress I have ever seen!

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  67. Haha-I can completely feel the difference between the first time around and then the next ones in line and how different we are with them. My first one I pretty much smothered with protections. Number 3 for me, well, I hope this doesn't sound horrible but I am always pushing her to be a little more independant and do things on her own. --Push! Push!-- LOL I need to remember that I have done this before, she hasn't --LOL

    Irish

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  69. The first time our eldest went on night exercise with the school, we were on tenterhooks till she arrived home.
    When our twin daughters went on their first night exercise, we treated ourselves to a night out and the freedom. Love them nonetheless though.

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  70. This made me laugh out loud. I guess parents do mellow out as they have more kids. :)

    ~Jess

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  71. Have hears similar stories. Isn't this the truth,this made me laugh. Hugs..Lu

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  72. With each successive child we ease up on the hovering, don't we?! Thanks for the laughs!

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  73. I am still not past the anxious stage. I should keep you in mind whenever my kids start on a new venture. However, I only have four. I wonder if I'll be as laidback with my fourth as you were with your 7th. :-)
    ~Imelda

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