Monday, December 24, 2012

Pay It Forward

We have a tradition in our home of the kids exchanging Christmas presents with each other on Christmas eve. It is a lot of gifts to get and give...7! Most of the kids are chronically low in funds so saving money for this consists of saving their birthday money, even though the gifts are bought at either the Dollar Store or Five Below. My college age daughter and 12 year old son were standing in the long winding check out line lamenting the need for just a little more money that would have made the perfect gift possible. The line was long so they got to talk about different combinations of exchanging the gifts that would allow them to get this other gift. They were brainstorming and decided the possibility of another kid going in on this gift, but that meant having to come back in a hour and wait in this line again, and it wasn't a sure bet because what if everyone already had their gifts? The woman in front of them must have been listening, because when she checked out she left the $4 for them so they could get their present. They did not know her, or even notice what she looked like, but knew she must have been in the same boat as she was shopping at Five Below too. Such a simple gesture with such huge effects! Those kids got to witness the benefit of an act of kindness. And a lesson for the season, a lesson for life! They got to understand first hand how one small gesture of kindness can make a difference, because that motivated them to be kind to someone else too. And pay it forward.
Merry Christmas!

107 comments:

  1. what a nice story. great tradition too. Merry Christmas!

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  2. Lovely story. Wishing you and your family a very Merry Christmas and the best of new years.
    Sam

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  3. Love the tradition. Merry Christmas!

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  4. What a lovely gesture. Have a great Christmas xxx

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  5. What a sweet story! Merry Christmas!

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  6. Nice thing to do for the kids, what a kind woman!

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  7. It is those random acts of kindness that make your heart sing. So believe that your children will learn and pay it forward. By the way I wish you and your family a blessed and happy Christmas.

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  8. If that were my kids, next year they would raise their voice and lament that they didn't have even more money.


    Great story,

    Merry Christmas

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  9. Great story of a random act of kindness. Merry Christmas to you and yours!

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  10. Annmarie, Our grandsons donated a bunch of toys to local charity and today, while at the Grocery Store, our daughter Dawn Marie bought up the last 7 pre-packaged family meals for those in need. Blessings to you and yours... Merry Christmas! Take Care, Big Daddy Dave

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  11. This is a beautiful reminder of what it means to share with others. Merry Christmas to you and yours.

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  12. This is what the world needs...bravo.

    Merry Christmas :)

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  13. Very appropriate post for Christmas Eve. We need more mentors like the person who left them $4.00 .

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  14. That is was a great act of kindness for your children and those around them to see.We need more people like that. Merry Christmas.

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  15. That is what the season is all about!!

    Merry Christmas!!

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  16. What a beautiful post. I wish all of you a very merry Christmas. xoxo,Susie

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  17. that is awesome...had a couple we met for the first time yesterday invite us to dinner...we dont have the money to go out right now and they said, dont worry we will pay it...its humbling...but a beautiful thing...

    merry christmas!

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  18. Have a wonderful day.
    Love from Mum
    xx

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  19. That is WONDERFUL!!! I love it!!! Merry Christmas!!!

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  20. I love when people do that. I think those types of kindnesses are a gift to the giver as well.

    Merry Christmas to you and your family!

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  21. you got it right!!!! merry merry Christmas :)

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  22. Beautiful story. Happy holidays!

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  23. What a great story!

    Merry Christmas to you and the clan!

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  24. Gives you faith in human nature, maybe there's hope for us yet.
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    Merry Christmas
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  25. That's a very rare act of kindness indeed. Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to you and your family.

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  26. Beautiful. Merry Christmas to you and your lovely bunch.
    Carolyn

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  27. This was so nice..of the lady and for the children...I fully believe in paying it forward and always help out others any way I can...what goes around comes around!!

    Merry Christmas to you and your family.

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  28. Lovely story and such a wonderful lesson for children. Thanks for sharing and Merry Christmas!

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  29. Just a quick visit to greet you and your family a Blessed Christmas and a happy new year. It is a pleasure to know you and your family. Thanks for the inspiration and encouragement. I will get caught up with reading your blog one of these days. :-)

    ~Imelda

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  30. What a wonderful Christmas eve story! Wishing you a great holiday! And to know the Peace of God this year.

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  31. That's so sweet and wonderful! Thank you for sharing this.

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  32. Merry Christmas. All the best to your and your family.
    Rick

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  33. Christmas as it can, as it should be.

    Please have you all a wonderful celebration.

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  34. Beautiful post!! Merry Christmas to you all!

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  35. You always have the most heartwarming stories!

    Merry Christmas to you and your family.

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  36. How sweet. I love to hear of such touching moments. My children loved to be crafty, as I did, so I loved the homemade gifts best.

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  37. What a wonderful, heart-warming story. We need more people like that! xo Diana

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  38. Now that was a great story about the real meaning of Christmas.

    MERRY CHRISTMAS!

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  39. What a wonderful Christmas story. And just when we needed to hear about good people in this world. Merry Christmas!

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  40. A wonderful story filled with the true spirit of Christmas. Merry Christmas to you and your wonderful family.

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  41. I read things like this and think that I will do that sometime, but the opportunity just doesn't seem to arise. Maybe next time I go thru the drive thru at my local burger place, I should leave money to help the guy behind me with him order. Just an idea!
    Merry Christmas to you and yours.

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  42. A lesson for life indeed! Beautiful...
    Blessings and Merry Christmas!!!
    xoxo,
    - Irina

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  43. That is a wonderful story, Pipa! Such a simple gesture that meant so much to your children... and a great lesson for them! I'msur they will pay it forward when the right moment comes along.
    Merry Christmas to you and your amazing family!
    All the best, Steph

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  44. Nice act for Christmas day. Merry Christmas!

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  45. How cool. What a wonderful lesson that woman gave those two. May she have a very Christmas.

    Christmas blessings to you and your family! Merry Christmas.

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  46. And that's what this season is all about. Merry Christmas!!

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  47. I have notices, people seem to be much more giving this year! It's nice!

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  48. Something never to be forgotten. Merry Christmas. Large families have the best times even if the gifts are inexpensive.

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  49. What a wonderful act of kindness! Merry Christmas to your beautiful family! God bless you in the coming year!

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  50. That is so cool and wonderful of the stranger to give your kids the $4 so they could get that perfect gift! It blesses my heart when I hear of or see someone doing that. And it inspires me to do that myself occasionally.

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  51. We also celebrate Christmas Eve and the presents are under the tree. This year I put a photo of each family member on the boxes, so that my 2 year old grandson could distribute the gifts, that was really cute ! He was so serious !lol !

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  52. A great tradition.....Merry Christmas to you and yours. :)

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  53. A very Merry Christmas to you and yours, my friend! xo

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  54. Merry Christmas! I hope you and your family had a wonderful day!

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  55. LOVE that. I have been on both sides of random acts of kindness. BOTH feel amazing. :) Merry Christmas.

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  56. Absolutely wonderful! What a great idea and what wonderful results! Merry Christmas!

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  57. WOW, what a sweet gesture and a great lesson in life:) They will never forget that sweet and generous lady! Have a blessed Christmas Evening! HUGS!

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  58. What a beautiful gesture. It's so wonderful to see that there are caring people out there in this world. I experienced my own act of kindness on the 23rd. I left my coupon cubby in the shopping cart at the store. It didn't have money in there, but a lot of gift cards and high value free item coupons I have won this past year. I thought for sure it was gone after calling the store, driving back to check the carts ect. Someone was surely going to have a Merry Christmas with my book. Low and behold, the store called that night to tell me someone had turned it in. It's hard sometimes to find the good in people, but that restored my faith in humans doing what's right.

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  59. It's amazing what four dollars can buy.

    http://joycelansky.blogspot.com/2012/12/wordless-wednesday-oy-vey-its-christmas.html

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  60. There is still kindness in this world, happy Christmas to you and your family.

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  61. Merry Christmas Annmarie! I hope you had a blessed day with your family. :)
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  62. Lovely story!
    Merry Christmas and Happy New Year
    Greating from Norway:-)

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  63. Merry Christmas dear! Happy Holidays!

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  64. Moments like this prove you've done well raising your kids, don't they?

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  65. I saw a car in front of me stop and give a much older woman on a bicycle something that made her awful happy (on the 23rd). I'm assuming it was cash. Regardless, you could tell something nice had happened and it made me smile. :)

    Happy you had your own act of kindness to tell about too!

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  66. We need more random acts of kindness in the world. I took my niece (9 yrs old) to the mall and we bought tickets for the carousel and randomly gave them out to the kids (in memory of the Newtown, CT victims). It was so awesome to see the joy expressed by such a small act.

    Merry Christmas!

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  67. How wonderful! So perfect - there's nothing like receiving a random act/gift of kindness to know what it will feel like when THEY give to others. It really does make a difference! What an uplifting story! Thanks for sharing! Reia from www.southcountrysides.blogspot.com

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  68. Such a wonderful tradition! Happy new year.

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  69. What a neat tradition and how nice of the lady. This is what Christmas is all about.

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  70. I love hearing stories like this one. How kind that woman was and what a great lesson she taught your kids.

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  71. Awesome to see people giving and sharing with strangers. I love stories like this! Wish the news covered them more.

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  72. Love the tradition! Merry christmas and more blessing for the coming new year!

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  73. what a wonderful story. there are really so many good people in the world!

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  74. I think she is an angel..spreading her wings and be with those who are in need...wonderul story!

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  75. Pay it Forward is such a touching movie and I've always imbibed its meaning ever since I watched it. I love the simple thought of just being good to others in hopes of them being good to more people too. :) This is what the Holidays are all about :)

    Merry christmas!!

    ♥,
    Shari
    The Misty Mom

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  76. Merry Christmas. I hope you had a wonderful holiday.

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  77. I love your blog :)
    I'm following you now
    xx

    www.esteephs.blogspot.com.es

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  78. Oh, how wonderful! I love it when strangers are generous. Today I read a story about a man who thought he got a ticket, but the policeman had slipped him a $100 bill because the man didn't have enough money to feed his family. This was why he didn't have up-to-date tags on his car, which is why he was pulled over.

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  79. Wow what an amazing story of generosity and it will always stick with your boys and they will surely pay it forward themsevles someday.

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  80. simple act of kindness/generosity goes a long way. happy holidays and have a great new year.

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  81. I love stories like this. How wonderful that it was your children on the receiving end of this lesson. They will surely be aware of opportunities they come across to pay it forward.

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  82. That's such a lovely post that will inspire me to be kind thank you for sharing. Its such a shame this isnt more common in this day and age. Following from follow who blog hop .

    http://chandodaddy.blogspot.co.uk

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  83. I love this idea. It's suitable for any time of year, you know? :) Have been hearing other stories like this too - a friend had her meal paid for by the car in front of her at a drive thru recently. So glad you shared this, I'm inspired to pay it forward.

    Happy New Year!

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  84. Wow, that's awesome! how nice & I'm sure the kids really appreciated that. Thanks for sharing.

    Happy Holidays :)

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  85. I love it! We need to remember and do these things all through the year!

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  86. I love stories like this! I am glad your kids got to see a radnom act of kindness first hand. A random act of kindness a week is one of my goals for the next year. Wishing you a happy day!
    ~Stephanie

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  87. What a precious lesson for them! We do all need a reminder to do little acts of kindness more often!

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  88. Such a nice tradition! Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas! Advance Happy New Year!

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  89. Absolutely beautiful story! What a wonderful gesture for your children to get to experience! What a fantastic blog! I can't wait to read more,

    Aanika (from The Active Mum) xo

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  90. how reassuring! so often, all we see and hear about are the bad things; it's good to know there's still some kindness floating around out there. :)

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  91. What a wonderful story! Thanks for sharing. Happy New Year to You!

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  92. It is always a miracle to experience the goodness of a stranger. From the looks of it, your children will be channels for God's miracles to others, too.

    I hope you all had a blessed Christmas.

    ~Imelda

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  93. How wonderful that they got to experience such a fine gesture. Happy New Year!

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  94. What a lovely gesture... i think these small actions create the best example.

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