Monday, February 4, 2013
Why Study Abroad?
Tomorrow afternoon my oldest son will board a plane from the US and head to Switzerland to attend college there. And because of the crazy high cost of college here, the cost is about the same, including travel. Sounds exciting, doesn't it? He will be there for 4 months. Oh lucky him. As a now experienced parent of kids who have studied in different countries, I am kind of an advocate for the experience. I will tell you why. With this foreign travel the young, (he's 19) scared kids get the challenge of adventure and the feeling of empowerment. All under the security of a college environment, which means advisers available, a health clinic easily accessible, and peers doing the same thing. The kids have to do all kinds of stuff on their own, make flight arrangements, schedule classes long ahead of time, figure out how to get places and budget their money, adapt to cultural norms etc. Independently, yet still with the safeguard and security of college life. They see they can do it! What a feeling! And then they come back home with a sense of accomplishment that is self satisfying. Wow. Big time life lessons. Most importantly they come home and are suddenly aware of things that were always in front of their noses that they never noticed before or realized how much they cared about. Their life perspective changes, matures, because they begin to understand just how good they have it. Bon Voyage!
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Wow - usually my comment is about #149. I agree with you on the foreign studies. What a wonderful experience! So many new things to learn and do, and so many previously unappreciated things in their lives that they'll learn to appreciate. Like home. And Mom and Dad. They learn to rely on themselves, and that's one of the most valuable lessons of all! In our church, our boys and girls have the opportunity to serve a mission somewhere in the world. My boys didn't happen to serve in a foreign country, but they still came back strong and independent, and as men, rather than the boys we sent. And they appreciated home like no other upon their return, yet they were ready to be out on their own. Your boy will have a wonderful experience, even though I'm sure he's a little nervous right now.
ReplyDeleteThe best lessons come from experience, not books.
ReplyDeletestudying abroad is the one that i regret not doing in college. i got accepted in australia but changed my mind the last minute. your son will definitely have a blast learning new cultures but the best of all, being independent.
ReplyDeleteI wish I got to travel and study abroad. It would have been a blast!
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I think he will have no problem there.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful experience. I loved my junior year at a different college in the U.S., but wish I could have spent some time overseas, too. Wishing him a great time!
ReplyDeleteWhat a fantastic experience! I would have been far too nervous at that age. Possibly even now!
ReplyDeleteYes, I agree. That is truly a valuable experience for a 19-year-old. Here's wishing him much success and growth as well as a lot of FUN!
ReplyDeleteI went to school aboard. All you said was true. But there are pit falls , The drinking age over there is 16 or lower. Their morals toward sex are more relaxed. The good news is the students band together and watch out for each other.
ReplyDeleteoh wow what an adventure this will be for him...something i wish i had done when i was young...i know he's nervous now and at time you will be while he is gone as well...ah imagine the stories he'll bring home...smiles.
ReplyDeleteI would imagine that this is a fabulous experience for any young man or woman! Bravo mama for giving him the freedom to do this!!
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I am young and student college, study abroad and having new experiences of cultures, and languages is also one of my passion. It's good for your son that he could see new world from usually :)
ReplyDeleteI have wanted to have one but not study maybe like mission trip or sharing my culture to other foreign countries.
Blessing!
very good point. students will have the attitude of independence. I also studied away from my parents and it made me a responsible individual...thanks for sharing...:)
ReplyDeletexx!
Is it a student exchange program? He will learn a lot, and not all of it in school. Living in a whole different culture for a short time is amazing.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you 100%. In our case, our son went into the Peace Corps and came out a changed, more responsible, appreciative, knowledgeable fellow. He grew up.
ReplyDeleteYou are one smart mama! None of our kids went abroad to study, but one of our sons went to school in Chicago. Compared to life in the suburbs of Atlanta, that was kinda like going to a foreign country.
ReplyDeleteHow wonderful for him! My oldest son was in the military and was out of the country quite often and he said those are some of his best memories - aside from Iraq. - Remind your son to bring you back some chocolate! :)
ReplyDeleteYou are a brave mother. I was terrified to let my son move 2 hours away to go to school. What if he had a flat? What if his car broke down in the middle of the night? What if he ran out of food and had no money? Who would iron his clothes...no, he would go wrinkled! I talked him out of going...he stayed here and went to school, then got a job, found him a wonderful girlfriend, and is now buying a house and going to get married in June. I think they will learn about life with, or without us holding their hand. I was the one who was scared...not him. I was the one not wanting him to grow up...he wanted to...and did....whether I wanted him to or not. :)
ReplyDeleteHow exciting! I know it might be a little hard on Mom but it's such a great opportunity for him to learn about different culture and grow and become more independent.
ReplyDeleteI pray that I raise my children to be as independent as you've raised yours to be! Best wishes to your son.
ReplyDeleteHugs,
Meredith
That's a wonderful adventure. It is cheaper for our kids in the UK to go to university in Europe, due to this ridiculous government putting the fees up to a unaffordable level x
ReplyDeleteThanks so very much for stopping by jazzy jennis world and leaving a comment! It was an encouragement to me and I appreciate it. I am also enjoying your thought - provoking blog posts!
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Jenni
Very best wishes to your son :)
ReplyDeleteThis will be a fantastic experience for your son!
ReplyDeleteI truly believe that living/studying elsewhere gives us a perspective and a wisdom we couldn't have gotten had we stayed where we are. Your son is fortunate to have such an experience.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful experience for him to have; and how lucky he is to have such a supportive mum!
ReplyDeleteTo see the world from another perspective is such a valuable experience. It gives us the chance to appreciate other cultures as well as our own and can promote an understanding that is beyond words and measure. You are very wise to give your son this wonderful opportunity.
ReplyDeleteI'm sure he will have the time of his life.
ReplyDeleteI agree travel broadens the mind and definitely matures the student plus it will probably be a fun adventure
ReplyDeleteIt's a great life changing experience! He will come back a changed man.
ReplyDeleteGreat for him!
I agree with you. You certainly are a mom who is on top of things. I am hoping at least one of my grandchildren will experience college overseas. Good luck to your son.
ReplyDeleteGood luck to your son, and you are right it will do him a world of good to learn to be an independent adult - what better place to learn than Switzerland, one of my favourite countries.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful opportunity! One of my daughters spent a semester at a university in Mexico and loved every moment.
ReplyDeleteI appreciate your perspective on this. When my kids are older I will be much more open to this idea! Many blessings!
ReplyDeleteI completely agree with you. This experience will be GREAT. I was lucky enough to live in Italy for 3 years, but I was a young navy wife. It was the best experience of my life.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful experience he will have!! I know you are so proud! I know I would be! :)
ReplyDeleteSo true! Best of luck to him! What a great experience in a beautiful country.
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ReplyDeleteI'm so exited for your Son! wonderful experience.:)
ReplyDeletePrayers for Mikie as he travels and experiences life in Switzerland.
ReplyDeleteI wish your son a safe trip and to have an amazingly good time in Switzerland! I know it's hard for the Mom to see her kids leave the house more so to go abroad. But as you pointed out this will be to his benefit. The experiences he will gain and how his mind will 'broaden' is unbelievable. I know cause I left Greece at 17 to go to the USA (alone) as an exchange student, continued with university studies and returned 10 years later!
ReplyDeleteSounds exciting!
ReplyDeleteSounds like it will be a fantastic experience! I wish him the best. :)
ReplyDeleteYou and I have spoken before on children traveling abroad. I, too am a big proponent of it. My son studied in the Netherlands in college and that is also the country of his heritage. It was an awesome experience for him.
ReplyDeleteMy husband's sister-in-law is studying abroad right now, and his wife did the same. I think it is a wonderful experience, and you're right at 19 it's time for them to grow, but they are a little scared still, especially if they've never been responsible for themselves, so the cushion of college supervision and support/likeness of peers is better than fantastic. Good luck to your son!
ReplyDeleteIt truly is a wonderful opportunity to be able to study abroad. Our daughter spent a summer semester in London, taking advantage of all that it had to offer.
ReplyDeleteMary Alice
Good morning! My son lived and studied in Rome for a semester and he took the train from one end of the country to the other. Along the way, he learned that there was no need to be in a hurry because no one else was either. Everyone got where they were going. Eventually. He walked everywhere and as a result, noticed more of the world around him. That was in grad school.
ReplyDeleteThe summer he graduated from undergrad, he went to Spain for a month. No language. No contacts. No plan except to get to Avila and visit the St. Teresa of Avila shrine. Again, he walked everywhere and discovered that English in Spain was not the preferred second language. So - lots of alone time for reflection.
In between there was a mission trip to Vladivastok, Russia. THAT was an experience. It was like stepping into a U.S. in the 80's time warp.
Our daughter flew to France to meet a friend and ended up in Tunisia at one point. This was long enough ago that the Arab Spring was still 5-6 years off. I wouldn't recommend it today but back then, it was a fantastic experience.
I totally agree with you. My parents sent me to London for one semester to study and, at the same time, work as an intern. It's a long way from the Philippines, but I truly enjoyed the experience. I learned a lot-- almost all of them you mentioned in your post. :) Now that I have two little ones, I plan to send them off to study in another country when they are old enough.
ReplyDeleteKim, Mom on Duty
What an amazing experience. I bet you are going to miss him so much, but 4 months isn't so long. I'm sure there will be great maturity in those 4 months.
ReplyDeleteMy kids are all grown now but this sounds like a wonderful opportunity as you stated for young men and women to get a clearer handle on life itself. Good job.
ReplyDeleteWhat a cool adventure for him! And it's true, you don't travel as you get older and get bound by ties like kids and jobs and mortgages. Do it now, young people!
ReplyDeleteVery exciting! Good luck to him and safe travels!
ReplyDeleteHow do you plan to keep in touch with him? Email? Skype? Back in the 1960's a friend of mine studied in France for her junior year. She was majoring in French, so this was a plus for her. Yes, it will be a time for learning life lessons. I will be praying for him.
ReplyDeleteHow neat! I went to Europe for 3 weeks when I was in-between my junior and senior year, and the experience was the best! I never got the chance to study abroad though, but I sure do hope that my kids do! Good luck to your son!
ReplyDeleteI agree with you on this one - fending for oneself in a different culture must enrich the mind.
ReplyDeleteMy daughter's studies didn't work out in a way to include studying abroad but she really wanted that opportunity. I've also been told by others it is a great experience. Switzerland would have to be a wonderful adventure.
ReplyDeleteI think it's a wonderful experience for your son! I hope he will really enjoy his time abroad.
ReplyDeleteGood luck to him. It does sound exciting!
ReplyDeleteHow thrilling! Good luck to him!
ReplyDeleteKathy
http://gigglingtruckerswife.blogspot.com
I agree, it's a great experience. My daughter really enjoyed her semester abroad. Good luck to him for a wonderful adventure.
ReplyDeleteAnnmarie, The other reason that I favor college studies abroad is that it does just that...it broadens one's viewpoint. It provides a chance to see how others life and what their experiences are. American's are too insular and most have no clue re: the rest of the world. In my opinion, that's not a good thing... Take Care, Big Daddy Dave
ReplyDeleteOh best of luck to your son with this exciting opportunity! Just wow!
ReplyDeleteI think that is GREAT! Congrats. sandie
ReplyDeleteI came to US 14 years ago to go to college for 1 semester...I have since then completed an undergraduate degree, a master degree, and married. So I have been living here for that long...definitely an awesome experience for your son
ReplyDeleteCongrats, and prayers to your son.
ReplyDeleteI think it's a brilliant idea, makes them mature faster in my mind.
ReplyDeleteWe lived overseas for six years and my girls went to highschool in the UK. There is nothing like foreign travel for building confidence and independence. I am a huge huge fan. Hope your son has a wonderful experience!
ReplyDeletewhat a fantastic opportunity! our son graduated from HS when he was 16 and went to Mexico to a language school (Cancun..he said if he was going to be janitor he wanted to be one in paradise). He was unable to get a job because he wasn't of age..so he came back home. But it was an incredible experience for him (and us)
ReplyDeleteBest of luck to your lucky son! I hope you get to go visit him for parent's day :-)
How wonderful! My very best wishes to him in this adventure!
ReplyDeleteWhat an incredible experience! I agree with you that it's so valuable for him, for anyone really.
ReplyDeleteI have never thought of studying abroad in that way. I agree with what a great experience.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful experience for your son! :)
ReplyDeleteHappy for your son. I have cousins who studied abroad too and they became even better persons when they come back to our home country. they appreciate a lot of things more after their experience. our wish for our little daughter is the same but it will require a lot of savings from now on :) good luck to your son!
ReplyDeletethat is awesome! what an amazing experience!!
ReplyDeleteWhat an exciting adventure your son is about to start. Thanks for sharing your perspective. Where most parents would focus on how much they would miss their child, you are focused on what a great and empowering adventure your son will have.
ReplyDeleteSwitzerland sounds exciting! I hope your son has a wonderful adventure. Everything about it sounds fabulous.
ReplyDeleteWhat a wonderful opportunity for young folks who might not otherwise get to travel and spend so much time in another culture. Good luck to him!
ReplyDeleteWow, that is an awesome opportunity. Switzerland sounds like such a great place to be. This is kind of like what young adults in our church do. They serve a mission for two years and during this time they learn so many wonderful life lessons.
ReplyDeleteBlessings!
Your son is very lucky to have parents who trust him to go to a foreign country by himself so that he can learn more about life.
ReplyDeleteI was born and raised in foreign countries where my father was assigned to as a diplomat. I learned a lot, such as tolerating differences in culture, language, racial difference, etc.
Thank-you so much for your comment on my blog and I am visiting you now. My sons are also in college and I always tell them, go, fly, leave the nest, flap those wings! One went to Africa last summer, the other will be off to study abroad next fall. I think it is crucial to see the world and to live independently in order to grow up and appreciate all we have in America.
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You summed out my entire experience in a nutshell! I studied in Nice France for a year and it was the best experience of my life...ultimately I learned about responsibility (as you said) but it also took me around the world, meeting new people, and finally my husband! I know it will be hard for me to accept the eventuality that my kids might want to "leave me" one day but I know that as a parent it is the best experience I can give them! Kudos to you for being so positive about this experience, although I'm sure it's tough to let them go!
ReplyDeleteWhat an adventure for him! I hope he thoroughly enjoys it.
ReplyDeleteHow did you find this opportunity? I'm curious for my children down the road of course.
ReplyDeleteAn adventure of a life time....I am sure you have prepared him well for this opportunity.
ReplyDeleteVery happy for him! Happy days to you!
ReplyDeleteI am very excited for him and for the family! As a mother, its so hard to watch your children grow and move away but this will be a healthy learning experience for him. Thank you for dropping by and I am now your newest follwer.
ReplyDeleteVickie
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"The whole object of travel is not to set foot on foreign land; it is at last to set foot on one's own country as a foreign land." From G K Chesterton's essay "The Riddle Of The Ivy."
ReplyDeleteGreat words, but sadly lost on most of us in the States for one reason or the other. Probably because the mere act of transferring oneself to a different country is not, in and of itself, enough, yet imagining what else there could be seems to somehow elude us (but then again, what do I know?).
I applaud all of us who go abroad with this objective and hope Mikey has a great experience. And that he truly sees our land as entirely foreign upon return.
Just discovered your blog. It's so amazing, not some of that 0-8-15 stuff.
ReplyDeleteAs I come from Germany, I also wanted to make an internship at "Sacramento News & Review" in Sacramento this summer. It's always so exciting to be on your own, getting to know new cultures and to meet different kind of people.
I'm certain that your son will have a good time in Switzerland. I have some friends living there and it's really really beautiful. Wish him good luck.
Best Wishes,
Mimi
World of Plastic
How wonderful that several of your kids have been able to study abroad. It's a fantastic learning experience in so many ways, as you mentioned. I spent my junior year of college at Trinity College Dublin (Ireland) and lived with a young family there. It was life-changing and life-enriching. I had no memories of being anywhere other than southern California until I was 20 and went to Ireland, 5,000 miles away. It was the best of all my college years!
ReplyDeleteI think it's a great experience and a growth-promoting one.
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I'm on the opposite end; my daughter, who was born in Greece and has dual citizenship, is now here in my hometown, Toronto, Canada, trying to find work as Greece is going through its worst economic crisis ever. I'm torn between two countries, but my heart is where my daughter is! It's going to be tough, but her future is more important than anything else.
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