Monday, March 4, 2013

Don't Give Up! Believe!

 I will tell you a story of the past two weeks.
My 16 year old son started wrestling about 5 years ago. He developed a love for this sport so much that gave up all other sports to concentrate on becoming a better wrestler. And he worked really hard. Lifting, running, drilling, choosing the sport over parties. Things seemed to be working in his favor and he was winning, with a 27-4 record. He had a dream like goal of making it to states at 106 pounds, and was learning his competition. 4 days before post season, a team mate who was injured or sick more than half of the season challenged him for the spot. The match went into 4 overtimes and with a final score of 0-0 and the teammate won. Heartbreaking! In the world of wrestling weight is a big deal, and this loss meant moving up the the next weight class (gaining 7pounds) with less than a week to prepare. Stinks! The first section round, my son loses the very first match in overtime, by sudden death. Things are not looking good. All that effort! We all felt terrible. I reminded my son he is an all star in baseball, why did he stop playing? It's not too late, preseason just started and he would definitely make the team. The stares I got from my husband and other boys made me realize I should not be saying this stuff. We all had to regroup. This was all brand new turf. My son won the next 3 matches that day, and advanced to districts with the sixth seed. He needed at least one big upset to advance and was not picked by any sports writer to do that. He lost his second match so he had to win 5 in a row to advance. He does! He now moves on to regionals. Every opponent sees him as a fluke. He wins the first match by a pin. His next opponent was a state place winner last year and was projected to repeat this year and was highly favored...the match goes into 4 overtimes and my son wins!  The wrestlers were so physically exhausted they could not stand up after the match. No one could really believe what just happened. No one did believe what just happened. So now my son is in the semis,  wrestling a senior who was the section champ and was also expected to advance to the state level. Another victory for my son with 4 overtimes! Oh my gosh!  A mother's heart is not made for this. In the end he placed SECOND and the local newspaper label him feisty, on a tightrope and a complete surprise. There are now 16 wrestlers left in the state at his his weight...and next week 8 of them will place at the Giant Center in Hershey.  I hope my son is one of them!

105 comments:

  1. Congratulations to your Son! I am proud that he did what it took to keep advancing:) Can't wait to see what the future holds for your determined Wrestler! HUGS!

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  2. Wow! What an inspirational story of perseverance. Congratulations and I do think he will take a place at the next one, too!

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  3. YEAH!!! It just shows that dedication and hard work really pay off. Plus, it helps to have a wonderful family to support you!

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  4. I was on the edge of my seat reading this. Congratulations to your son.

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  6. He is inspired by his Mom, who bore eight children and through her faith and prayers keeps all of it together by overcoming greater real life challenges than a wrestling match!

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  7. I have long thought the "making weight" in wrestling was overrated. If you could not beat someone in your weight class, sure try and drop to the next class, but often (IMHO)the lower weight saps strength and endurance. With those wins in 4 overtimes your son clearly had incredible endurance. THe higher weight class just might have been a good thing.

    Wrestling was never my favorite sport. It takes so much dedication and hard work. Making it far in post season is a big deal. Good luck to him in matches to come.

    I laughed at your talking baseball before his season was over. Moms always try to soften the blow. You won't have to do that for this boy, he is a Wrestler, he is tough, and he knows how to be defeated and keep coming back (few wrestlers ever go undefeated).

    Let us know how he finishes, don't keep us hanging!

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  8. Your son has developed skills that will get him through the tough times that life will put before him in his future. He has learned that when things aren't going your way, keep at it, and make your own way. You should be extremely proud.

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  9. His passion really shows! What a great job he's done :)

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  10. What a wonderful feeling of victory for you all! And, what determination and "stick-to-itivenvess" your son has! God will use that determination for your son's blessing in life and for His glory. Our prayers will be with you.

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  11. That is so wonderful! Congratulations to him!!

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  12. Congrats. You are so right about a mother's heart not being made for this. I am glad he is having success as he has put so much work into it. My son wrestled in high school and didn't do very well. Luckily he found some successes in other areas. Being a mom can be very difficult.

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  13. Thank you for sharing this. What a great story! Good luck to him, and YOU, next week! :)

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  14. Congratulations to your son! It pays to believe and never give up!

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  15. Congrats to your son! Love that he didn't give up!
    Have a great week!

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  16. A big congratulations to your son! He has heart. The world of wrestling is not for the weak. My youngest son also wrestled, and the days of sweating off pounds by wearing a plastic bag in a steamy bathroom while riding the stationary bike, even spitting off water weight - well, they still leave me weak in the knees, but with a total admiration for his discipline and dedication. Hope your son continues on.

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  17. Feisty indeed! Ahhh, that Pipa blood ;) His Aunt Anne and Uncle Jim are very proud of him and wish him all the best at States!

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  18. I've got goose bumps all over that will not go away. What a son you have raised (1 among 8, I might add). Hang in there mom!!! Just believe!

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  19. As a mom, we always want them to take that easier path, to never hurt and never suffer. Sometimes we have to step back in amazement at the people our children are becoming... I find myself doing that every day. Good luck to him and to you! I hope your heart handles the coming excitement LOL!

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  20. Huge congratulations to your son!!
    What an amazing story.....We adults can learn from him, dedication, perperseverance, what a strong will can to make something happen.
    Good luck to your son for the next matchs,and to your heart, Annmarie!!lol

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  21. Congratulations to your son! This is wonderful!

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  22. Way to go! He has earned his place, and i'm sure learned valuable lessons for life.

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  23. Holy cow! What a huge accomplishment and testament to his WILL and ENDURANCE. Congratulations! You have got to be busting with pride.

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  24. i hope so as well...very cool...and what an great accomplishment...best wishes to him for state....

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  25. You must be so proud!! I can't wait for these milestone moments with my children!!

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  26. Wow! How exciting! A mother's heart sometimes can't take all that excitement. My Brother in Law used to be a wrestler in HS. I couldn't believe how he could gain and lose weight so fast for matches.

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  27. Oh. My. WORD! That is so exciting! Good for him! What a go getter. And what a heart! Sports are all about heart, and he's got it!
    Congratulations to your boy!

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  28. Awesome!! Way to go! Congratulations and praying you make it next week.

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  29. never no never not ever don't ever give up...mom! wonder where in the world that feisty comes from?

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  30. I am praying that your son is one of those finalists. Good for him. God rewarded him for all his hard work and his unfailing belief in himself- xo Diana

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  31. I love stories like this! Congratulations to your son!

    Those bleacher's are hard, though, aren't they? he he xxoo

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  32. Good luck to your son. Wrestling is such an intense sport and nervewrackig for parents.

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  33. That's great, what a champion.

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  34. That is great. The easy thing is to quit, but we gain so much more if we keep on going forward. Win or lose the match, he is a winner for believing in himself and giving it his best.

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  35. Congrats and good luck to your son!

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  36. My 12 year old grandson wrestles (73 lbs.) and knowing how I am during his matches, I can't imagine the state you were in. Mucho congratulations and good luck to your son.

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  37. Congratulations to your Son!The idea of not giving up is definitely a thing i should ponder to myself. thank you for sharing such a heartwarming story:)

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  38. Congratulations to your son! I guess that's proof that working hard is worth it in the end. Hope he continues to excel!

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  39. How impressive. What a work ethic he must have. My SIL was a state wrestling champion here in Michigan a few years back. He still loves wrestling and looks back on those years so fondly. I've learned over the years, that making weight is everything. Your son really accomplished something extra special.

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  40. Wow! Congrats to your son! I am following you back from NPMom.com

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  41. I certainly hope your son makes it; good job Mom! What an inspiring story. =)

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  42. Annmarie, Love what you're doing then add determination and perserverance...and the odds will tip in one's favor! Congratulations to your son! Take Care, Big Daddy Dave

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  43. You are right, mother's hearts are not made for this, and yet we survive and grow and learn with our children.

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  44. Oh my goodness! Sounds like it has been a very exciting time for him (and for the rest of you too watching him!). Best of luck to him.

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  45. How wonderful!! CONGRATS to your son!!

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  46. How absolutely wonderful!!! :)

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  47. congratulations!! What true grit!

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  48. Congrats to your son! Love his indomitable spirit! Credit also goes to his awesome mom, of course!!

    Happy Tuesday, Annmarie!

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  49. Congratulations to your son! {And to YOU for having to sit through it!} This is such a wonderful victory for your family.

    XOXO,
    Meredith

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  50. Congratulations to you and your son!

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  51. One door closes and another opens. I am sure your son will do very well.
    The island that I live on/in has a Champion http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Daniel_Geale if you wish to read :)

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  52. Congratulations to your son and to you! That is awesome!

    http://happydaysintn.blogspot.com/

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  53. Wonderful for your son. He was taught some very valuable lessons that he will carry throughout life. The main one is just because you work hard, doesn't mean you will meet the goal right then and there. However, if you endure, you will get there. Even if you don;t certainly there must have been something that he needed to experience/learn that will help with his progression in this life.

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  54. So glad he has come so far and proven to not be a fluke. The best of luck gooing forward! I am following now, glad to find your blog.

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  55. What a true show of amazing spirit! Congratulations to your Son!

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  56. Congratulations! It pays to be patient and to never give up easily.

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  57. Congratulations to your son!!! This was incredibly inspirational :)

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  58. By the way Ann ..thank you for stopping by my blog. I am returning the favor...following you in linky and networkedblog..

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  59. Oh my gosh, I was riveted to your story. My oldest was a wrestler and it meant the world to him, so I feel your mama love. :)

    Congrats to your son, job well done. I hope we'll read soon about him placing next week.

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  60. You should be very proud of this young man who did not give up when things looked so bleak. He is a winner for sure!

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  61. Persistence, tenacity and determination -- three attributes your son has in abundance! I wish him the very best!

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  62. That needs a big congratulation not only to your son but to all those who stood by him ..... and you are one of them.

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  63. I can imagine how you feel Annmarie, heart almost bursting with joy. Congratulations to your son, you and your family!

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  64. Congratulations to your son for not giving up. You must be even more proud of him than you were before!

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  65. Oh how wonderful! Loved this. I'm sure he will be. What's with the IOC dropping wrestling, eh? We're very put out with them! :(

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  66. Wow congratulations to your son...all his hard work and skill has paid off. times like this is the one of the perks of being a mom :)

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  67. Annmarie! Thanks for saying hello on my blog:) So nice to get to know you. Excited to follow along on your awesome life. I love how simply you live!!! Inspirational!

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  68. What a great story! Our youngest son was a college baseball player. We had plenty of exciting seasons. Enjoy every moment. Good luck.

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  69. Congrats to your son! It is a wonderful story of determination. :)
    ~Jess

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  70. This is so exciting for your son. Congratulations to him.

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  71. you must be a proud mama! congratulations to you both!

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  72. Good for your son. It is so nice that all his hard work paid off. Congratulations to him and your whole family for all the support. :)

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  73. Please keep us posted on how and I hope you son does well. I am following your on google, linky blogs and Network Blogs

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  74. Congratulations to your son!

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  75. such perseverance deserves a place, holding thumbs!!!

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  76. congratulations and good luck to your son (and you)! x

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  77. I hope so too! I will keep my fingers crossed. This is so exciting. I'd like to add my congratulations to a lovely win.

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  78. Omygosh! Congratulations!! That's fantastic.

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  79. What perseverance! Congratulations all around.

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  80. Well done to him. A lot of youngsters give up too easily these days. It's good to see your son has perseverance. I was raised on the philosophy of 'Don't Stop Till You Drop'. I'm glad it's still around.

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  81. Awesome! All the best for him XX

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  82. Congratulations to your son and good luck to him!

    Kathy
    http://gigglingtruckerswife.blogspot.com

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  83. Very inspiring! Congrats! I just came across your blog and I'm your newest follower :) Would you mind checking out our blog & if you like, following back via GFC and Bloglovin'? Looking forward to your next post! xx

    sixthtractate.blogspot.com

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  84. hi
    Glad to see a brave son of a brave mom. Hearty congratulation & prayers for his success.
    thanks a lot for visiting & commenting on my blog....following you on GFC & Networked Blog..have a nice day.

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  85. Thanks for your comment, I think that this must be harder on you than your son. It's great that he has so much dedication, he'll do good and he's already making you proud.
    Have a great weekend.
    JB

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  86. How amazing! Congratulations to your son. My husband started wrestling in middle school and wrestled through college. That's actually how we met so wrestling is a sport near and dear to our hearts.

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  87. Your son will have success in life no matter what he does because he has learned the value of persevering. This is such an inspirational story, AnneMarie! Never, ever, ever give up!!

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  88. Good things always come to those who wait. Congrats to your son :)

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  89. Great story!!!! Perseverance and confidence always pay off in the end. Good luck to your son!

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  90. Great story!! Congratulations to your son! What a wonderful accomplishment and a lot of hard work.

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  91. Inspiring story. Congratulations to your son. I saw you at the Aloha Friday blog hop and I am your newest follower in GFC from http://inhighheelsanddogtags.blogspot.jp/. I look forward to seeing you over at my blog next :)

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  92. What a guy! I'm so sorry he injured his knee. He certainly has what it takes to overcome.

    One of my former students, Ben Metzler from Manheim Central, also went to States, but I didn't hear how he did there.

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